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Positive Female Control....

behavior modification therapy and nero-conditioning for the issues surrounding internet porn, and masturbation

addictions...

surrender and succeed....

"No man is happy or complete without the modifying influence of the right woman.

The man who does not recognize this important truth deprives himself of the power

which has done more to help men achieve success than all other forces combined."

Napeloian Hil

ABOUT MONIQUE

Fortunate, indeed, is the person who has discovered how to give sex emotion an outlet through some form of creative effort, for she has, by that discovery, lifted herself to the status of a genius. Napeloian Hill

About

Welcome, I am MoniqueI began my company in 2001, evolving within the adult industry strategically focusing on what was needed combining all of my experience knowledge, skills and abilities arriving where I am today.. I have been fortunate to find my purpose and passion through the work I do. I have an innate knowing of men, understanding their needs, wants, desires and overall behavior. living being self aware, I am always teaching the levels of consciousness, law of attraction, meditation and self-awareness. as a single mother I am most proud of my son just the two of us for twenty years,. Today he is all grown up and has become more than I could have ever hoped for, a soldier, graduating from basic training Dec. 1, 2011, he is and always be my everything.
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Education & Skills:Continued Education Studies in Sexual Issues & Fetishism Empathic Counseling Life Coaching NLP - Hypnosis15 years of study & practice within the Subconscious Mind.Seminars Achievements: P S I (Personal Success Institute)Sedona Method (Emotional Releasing)REM Certified (Real Estate ManagementCertified Property Manager with fifteen years experienceTeam Leader & Motivational Consultant\Experienced in Website: development, design and placement
SERVICES

Sexologist
Psychoanalysis
Life Coaching
Femdom Control

Sexologist

Issues Addressed

Welcome to my company, I am Monique M,Welcome to my company, I am Monique M,I would like to define the essence of my work to make no mistake the importance, and value which is my purpose.My services address the real causes and effects of excessive visual stimulation, sexual obsessions, and masturbation addiction. What makes me unique is I have incorporated who I am into what I do. Utilizing my natural dominant nature positively to change, enhance,manage and control the lives of submissive men. For more than ten years this work and the incorporation of fifteen years management experience hundreds of lives have changed for the better as can yours, surrender and succeed.The following are some of the issues I address.Sexual Compulsions FetishismInternet Porn Addiction Compulsive Masturbation & "Edging"Visual DesensatizationSexual performance IssuesChildhood Trauma / AbuseProcrastination Relationship Difficulties / ImprovementSelf-Esteem Conscious AwarenessProfessional GrowthGoal Creating & achievement Stress / AnxietyExercise / Diet Accountability EMDRDebt Reductionunconscious self sabotaging behaviorHypnosis - specifically focused etc.. Whatever you may need to overcome or improve upon will be. Always communicate openly with me, the most important aspect of our relationship is respect, honesty, and trust..
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Psychoanalysis

Behavior Therapy

Internet Porn, compulsive masturbation, BDSM, fetishism, phone sex etc. are sexual outlets of pleasure, to be enjoyed, unfortunately when the desire and need becomes compulsive, utilized as a means of punishing ones self "self-destructive" in nature there is a problem. The reality is many men are caught in this cycle, rarely telling anyone the truth about their behavior filled with guilt, anxiety and in my experience have additional worries over their ability to preform sexually. Unfortunately this behavior like most self destructive, addictive behaviors is the minds means of self preservation, from unresolved underlying pain, trauma or abuse hardwired during childhood, unconsiousely utilized as an escape this sexual behavior is then triggered during times of stress or anxiety.My success helping men with these types of issues is second nature to me, and very rewarding. The therapeutic methods and processes of psychoanalysis I utilizeprovide effective solutions to the pain directly triggering these responses, renewing your behavior, inner peace, clarity, understanding, pleasure and sexual abilities again...Our sessions together will combind effective coaching and transmutation in addition to counseling if needed to address your specific issues.Hundreds of men have benefited now its your turn.

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Implementing Change

To achieve real success when addressing the underlying emotional issues that have lead to current behavior, It is imperative that your behavior be transmutation / Managed / Controlled.An idea of how this works is; together an overall assessment of what must be done, procrastinated, timelines created, everything from house cleaning, to organizing, weight management , exercise, professional and business guidance .Keep in mind everything I ask of you has an unique purpose,so much so that I am able to guarantee success in changing your sexually destructive self sabotaging behavior associated with compulsive masturbation, porn and fetish addictions, with one stipulation......... You must following every instruction I give you..******The following is an excerpt from Napoleon Hills Think and Grow Rich. I respect Mr. Hill immensely living by his beliefs. Including this as an example of how change is directed. Although I have a slightly different take on the concept of sex transmutation, varying somewhat due to the nature of the issues I address, the big picture is effectively changing your behavior, transmuting compulsive behavior with direct focus providing a structured outlet to regain the ability to sexually preform once again.Sex Transmutation by; Napoleon HillSex transmutation is simple and easily explained. It means the switching of the mind from thoughts of physical expression, to thoughts of some other nature.Sex desire is the most powerful of human desires. When driven by this desire, men develop keenness of imagination, courage, will-power, persistence, and creative ability unknown to them at other times. So strong and impelling is the desire for sexual contact that men freely run the risk of life and reputation to indulge it. When harnessed, and redirected along other lines, this motivating force maintains all of its attributes of keenness of imagination, courage, etc., which may be used as powerful creative forces personally, professionally or calling, including, of course, the accumulation of riches.The transmutation of sex energy calls for the exercise of will-power, or ME..to be sure, but the reward is worth the effort. The desire for sexual expression is inborn and natural.The desire cannot, and should not be submerged or eliminated. But it should be given an outlet through forms of expression which enrich the body, mind, and spirit of man. If not given this form of outlet, through transmutation, it will seek outlets through purely physical channels.A river may be dammed, and its water controlled for a time, but eventually, it will force an outlet. The same is true of the emotion of sex. It may be submerged and controlled for a time, but its very nature causes it to be ever seeking means of expression. If it is not transmuted into some creative effort it will find a less worthy outlet.I am aware of and implement scheduled masturbation until the cycle is broken

Femdom Control

Positive Control

Unlike many dominas I do not hate men, nor do I believe as so many do that to control they must mentality, emotionally and financially destroy men, their lives,and the lives of their families, for what? No one benefits, The good news is this is not reality, I live in a real world and know what true control is,Within my world you will be obedient, successful, and productive.. And so much more..When the mention of being "dominant" or "submissive" what is the first image that comes into focus? The majority dictates whips chains, bondage etc.. which is true but not entirely. overall these are personality types, developed early in life defining a large part of who we are. Unfortunately, the effects from this systematic demoralization laid upon submissive men is in part why I do what I do. my dominant, overwhelming g need to direct and control to men who innately need the control, guidance and direction of a dominant woman, empowering these men towards more fulfilling lives overcoming self destructive patterns of behavior.

services

FAQ How are your sessions conducted?My sessions are conducted by telephone, generally for an hour each week, but this depends entirely on your specific needs, keep in mind my services are individualized. Once we begin your never left without options or support I know there are times when my direction via a quick call is needed, and will be there not to worry, additional phone support is provided (which I will cover when you’re on board). After your first session I provide you with a synopsis of our session detailing my recommendations moving forward, a plan of action if you choose to commit and of course the rules that must be followed. Why are sessions by phone?Because they work; sessions by phone have worked well for more than ten years. Convince; it saves you time and money being able to speak from your home or office. The most important reason: your success. Your ability to speak openly, honestly and stay focused is imperative and this may not occur if working face to face. seated across from an attractive woman and discussing sex... I know men on every level, I understand their behavior, am accepting and nonjudgmental and speak quite openly, so trust me on this, the phone works better... What are your fees and payment options?My fees are on a per-hour basis = $80.00 per hour. Package pricing is available; in addition to other specifics ask meI accept all major credit cards and charges appear as (Coaching and Consulting).How long does the process take?Some people come for one session. Many come four to twelve times. Others benefit from a longer therapeutic relationship. There ARE rules, but no obligations. Understand there is no way for me to predict what your specific needs, timeline etc.. prior to our initial session.What if I want to discontinue?You’re not obligated to commit for any length of time, just remember it is in your best interest to communicate with Mistress, your honesty and integrity mean everything , because there have been many who have left the nest feeling complete, only to return for guidance once again. What do I do next?You may either send an email at lifecontrolcoach_gmail.com, or call (or text) me at 716-435-4048, with any questions you may have, and to schedule an appointment.
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TESTiMONIALS

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slide 2 I must say, with a feeling of epiphany - Mistress, You indeed have identified a growing, deepening need, and put a name to it. It may be that in the future you are considered a pioneer in the field of Therapeutically Female Domination - if so no one better could have been found - You irradiate the confidence and the depth of mind that many of us men dream of to serve and be molded by.Always, Your Obedient Servant

slide 3 2009 You should consider yourself very lucky if you have found Mistress Monique. She is unlike anyone I have ever encountered before. She has quickly gotten me on the road to find the happiness and success I should be having, without even knowing what hit me. It is quite obvious that the hypnotic-domes out there are for one thing. Your money and yourself esteem. Monique does the opposite when utilizing hypnosis, she builds you up, and enables you to do things you never thought you would be able to do. Her technique is without comparison...at least in my experience. Do not hesitate to contact her, To Trust her....to Surrender to Her.

slide 4 I have sought help from Ms Monique on several occasions currently professionally I have met all the goals we set together; I have received my long awaited promotion last year and received the compensation I deserved. Thank-you for all you help! The guidance provided by Monique with managing my compulsive masturbation has now given me back the use of my cock, also my wife and I are getting along better now and that's why I think it is long over due for you to help rescue "us" to ignite the passion that has been missing for much too long. . I desperately need your help and dominance to bring me back to the path I never should have left steve

slide 5 Apr 20Monique has been of immense help to me. For over forty years, I had been suffering from extreme feelings of guilt and bouts of depression stemming from the traumatic death of an immediate family member that I witnessed when I was seven years old. Back in those days there was no grief counseling.Please let me tell you some of my story:I become quite withdrawn following the death, and as a result, the object of bullying at school. Having a "genius" IQ does not help much either. My feelings of guilt inhibit me from defending myself. It is as though somehow I must deserve this punishment. I dumb myself down so as not to attract so much attention. As I grow into puberty, I still dread going to school. I often cry when alone. It seems to help. I hide my feelings from others. During my teen years and well into my twenties, my primary method of coping is to party and to cry.I experience sexual performance issues. My first love relationship fails after several years. I am academically dismissed from college. I enter into a BDSM relationship with a dominant sadist much older than I. I realize now that I am submissive. She encourages all of my kinks and introduces me to many more. I crave the pain she gives me. It brings relief. Eventually, I must move out of state due to a job transfer. I miss the control and the pain. I seek to relive the experience but the feeling just is not the sameAlmost thirty now, I seek out professional counseling. The counselor seems rather shocked and unable to fathom my kinks. I quit the counseling soon after. I am lonely. I date, but find no one compatible. I discover domination phone sex. This is exciting, but proves quite addicting for me and eventually consumes a major portion of my income. Some time later, I meet a wonderful woman. I try to explain my kinks. She is tolerant and indulges them to some extent. I marry her, quit partying, quit phone sex, and immerse myself totally in my work. I hope that I can suppress my depression, my feelings of guilt, and my need to submit. I cannot. I keep my feelings hidden. My wife and my work keep me going somehow. Occasionally, I utilize the services of a telephone dominatrix. I need to submit. I cannot quench this feeling. I cannot really explain why. Periodically, I become disgusted with myself. I throw away my fetish toy collection. I cannot stay away from it. I buy more toys. The cycle repeats. I cannot shake the guilt and the depression. I am strong though and I continue to function. Now in my late forties, a larger company acquires the smaller company where I have worked and flourished for almost 20 years. New management is hired. I do not seem to get along with the new management I feel like I am back in school being bullied. I no longer enjoy coming to work. After enduring their humiliation for another year or so, I finally decide to scrap my career in exchange for a lower paying blue-collar job. I am devastated. My work was my life. I hide my feelings from my wife and others. I am quite practiced at hiding my feelings at this point in my life. I turn 50, still suffering from guilt and depression and still crying in private. I discover the world of internet porn. It is an escape. It soon all but consumes me. It is not fair to my wife. One day I run across Monique's website while searching the web for porn. I read it and it strikes a nerve. This is me she was describing. I call and make an appointment. I expect that this attempt at counseling will be just as futile as my last, but something inside me compels me to try it anyway. Monique works with me to discover and resolve problems that I have. One by one, she has tackled them with me. Monique gives me the control that I so badly need as a submissive to keep myself in check. I have my life in order and can even say that I feel happy. I am amazed at the change that I see in myself. I now look forward to living each day.If you are fortunate enough to have found her website and you truly want to improve your situation, then do yourself a favor and seek her help, unless that is you want to be miserable for the remainder of your life.Recommended Bob

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The following testimonial reflects a very special transgender client of mine their testimonial has been modified (shortened) for personal reasons.

slide 7 Jan 2008I am a 37 year old male and have struggled my whole life with being born the wrong sex. I have sought help secretly seen therapists which have confirmed that I suffer from TS, but they talk in circles, and the advice and direction is clinic\al in nature and cannot be applied to the e real world, or you are labeled a deviant, when all you want is to be a woman and not draw any attention to yourself, and live what would be a normal life for yourself being comfortable in your own skin.Wednesday Jan, 2, 2008 I found Monique and placed a call, we did a verbal dance for her to insure I was not a cross dresser or looking for a sex call. Twenty min. into the conversation Monique was finishing my sentences almost like she had gotten into my mind, after an hour I was very comfortable with her. Monique will take the time to pull history and explore your mind to help make a determination on whether the decision to change is right. She will then help you tailor an individual plan to reach your goals and hold you to the commitment. I made more progress with her in one session than I did with all the years searching I did. She is the most perceptive, intelligent, person I have met on this subject and seems to be helping me as I feel really alive for the first time.. I know there is much work to do and I look forward to the future.Thank you Monique.T

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Page 11 I really do realize how much I need your influence and am willing to do whatever it takes.Thanks for your time and understanding. I really have missed your special talents__________________________

In their own words... Thank you Monique, Mistress...

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To schedule an appointment with me, or have any questions I can be reached by telephone, SMS message or by email.

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Monique Mancini

716-435-4048

lifecontrolcoach_gmail.com

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